Why Habits Matter—and How to Rewire Yours for Good

Nir Eyal: “There’s so much people get wrong about habits. Before you try and build or break one, make sure you know what a habit is and when it’s an appropriate method of behavior change. If you don’t know the difference between habits and routines, you likely regret your efforts.”

NE: “More often than not, we already know what to do, we just don’t do it. Why is it so hard to take our own advice and how can we use self-talk to find our way? Melissa Dahl explains how perspective gets in our way.”

NE: “What is ‘self-help’ for anyway? Are we taking ourselves too seriously? This Aeon piece explores if self-help is just another form of self-absorption or if it can be a tool we use to actually improve ourselves and the world.”

NE: “It’s easy to think of habits as simple behavioral triggers, but there are often much deeper physiological levels to be aware of. Breaking a bad habit requires a very different approach than making new habits.”

NE: “This deep dive into the neuroscience of how habits are made explains the role of neurochemicals in turning on the brain’s autopilot setting. Habits are more about inhibiting a stopping cue than being motivated to action.”

NE: “The idea that willpower is like gas in a gas tank is wrong. We don’t ‘run out’ of willpower. I wrote this for HBR in 2016 but this myth of willpower being a finite resource remains. It’s so important to take a different look at what drives us, and how to harness it for our own good.”

NE: “Another habit myth debunked! Habits don’t take 21 days to form. Rather, they are contextually specific based on the person, the behavior, and the frequency of action. The lingo in this Forbes piece helps you identify where you are in your journey.”

NE: “Internal triggers are just as important as the external triggers that lead us to bad habits. In 2013, a USC study explored the upside of internal triggers, like uncomfortable emotional states, that typically power ‘bad’ habits, but also have the potential to drive us to healthful behaviors as well. This Time article summarizes the findings nicely.”