Alexia Lee

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Alexia Lee

292 days ago

10 Things To Never Apologize For Again

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Alexia Lee

292 days ago

From the research, I found there are three paths. There were the cruisers, people who downshifted but never left the paid workforce. They typically work part-time, stayed in their industry, even stayed in their jobs, and just cruised along.

Then, you have the boomerangs, who left the paid workforce, but then relaunched into the same industry, in some cases the same job.

The third group are the pivoters—like you—who took that time and got to that place of who am I? What’s my legacy in the world? They ended up becoming all kinds of things. One woman went from business to nutritional science. We as a culture don’t give enough time to that quiet space, because we’re so go, go, go.

Why Taking Time Off Won’t End Your Career: Rethinking Being All-In All the Time

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Alexia Lee

292 days ago

Why Taking Time Off Won’t End Your Career: Rethinking Being All-In All the Time

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Alexia Lee

363 days ago

As children, none of us get 100% of our needs met. This is true of you. It’s true of me. It’s true of everyone. The degree of which our needs aren’t met varies widely, and the nature of how our needs are unfulfilled differs as well. But it’s the sad truth about growing up: we’ve all got baggage. And some of us have a lot of it. Whether it is a parent who didn’t hold us enough, who didn’t feed us regularly enough, a father who wasn’t around often, a mother who left us and moved away, being forced to move from school to school as a child and never having friends — all of these experiences leave their mark as a series of micro-traumas that shape and define us.

The nature and depth of these traumas imprint themselves onto our unconscious and become the map of how we experience love, intimacy and sex throughout our lives.

It’s Complicated: Why Relationships and Dating Can Be So Hard

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Alexia Lee

363 days ago

This is the reason that honesty and vulnerability are so powerful for creating high-quality interactions – the practice of being upfront about your desires and flaws will naturally screen for those who best suit you and connect with you.

It’s Complicated: Why Relationships and Dating Can Be So Hard

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Alexia Lee

364 days ago

STOP STEALING DREAMS: Seth Godin at TEDxYouth@BFS

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Alexia Lee

364 days ago

Executive presence is the combination of communication skills, technical competencies, perspective, and temperament that instill a sense of confidence in a leader's viewpoints and decisions.

6 Daily Habits That Will Make You Look Smarter and More Powerful

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Alexia Lee

364 days ago

Very few companies teach us how to lead. That’s like putting someone at a machine and demanding results without showing them how the machine works.

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Alexia Lee

364 days ago

Social selling makes sense for achieving quota and revenue objectives for multiple reasons. First, three out of four B2B buyers rely on social media to engage with peers about buying decisions. In a recent B2B buyers survey, 53% of the respondents reported that social media plays a role in assessing tools and technologies, and when making a final selection.

How B2B Sales Can Benefit from Social Selling

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Alexia Lee

364 days ago

Powerful Leadership Wisdom in only three words:

Behavior is destiny.
Make things better.
Eject energy vampires.
Leverage your strengths.
Find a coach.
Learn from failure.
Serve your team.
Say something positive.
Ask more questions.
Build strong relationships.

The Top 10 Rules for Talking Like a Leader

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Alexia Lee

364 days ago

Our understanding of human cognition provides one important clue as to why we may see success as inevitable: the availability heuristic. Using this cognitive shortcut, we tend to estimate the likelihood of an event or outcome based on how readily we can recall similar instances. Successful careers, of course, result from many factors, including hard work, talent, and chance. Some of those factors recur often, making them easy to recall. But others happen sporadically and therefore get short shrift when we construct our life stories.

Why Luck Matters More Than You Might Think

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Alexia Lee

364 days ago

There are also two types of entrepreneurs.

One says: “Pick me! Buy my product! Please! I will do business with anyone.”
The other says: “I only create exceptional products/services for a specific group of people. If it’s not for you; no sweat.”

Always Invest In Your Education

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Alexia Lee

364 days ago

You see, education, learning, knowledge — it’s all perishable. Not only do you lose it if you don’t use it. You also lose your knowledge if you don’t improve it. You simply for

Always Invest In Your Education

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Alexia Lee

364 days ago

The Risky Business of Hiring Stars

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Alexia Lee

364 days ago

7 Ways To Attract The Right People Into Your Life

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Alexia Lee

364 days ago

Why Entrepreneurs Need Good Mentors

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Alexia Lee

364 days ago

Digital Badges and Certificates – do they have value in your “Do It Yourself” Learning Ledger?

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Alexia Lee

364 days ago

When It Comes to Career, It’s Up to Every Employee to Stay Relevant

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Alexia Lee

379 days ago

Written communication has considerable importance. What you write and send to others represents who you are in the workplace. So when you write something, ensure that it is worth the time to read it. You could be the brightest, most innovative person in your company. If unable to effectively communicate those thoughts in writing, no one will know.

The Value of Effective Written Communication

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Alexia Lee

379 days ago

I don't want to wax too poetic, but I have really been struck by something which the famous psychologist Erik Erikson said. At some point you realize that you're given this one chance -- he words it this way -- ‘this one chance in all of eternity to enact an identity and to play it out in the real world.’

Towards the end of life, what's really important to people is to be able to see how their life mattered, how it was meaningful, how there was a story to it that wraps up in a good way.

People who are able to create that kind of narrative, and think of their life in that way, are typically happier. They're more generative. They're much more serene and open to the end of life. So that is really good work for people to do. Writing about it is something that a number of my interviewees did. Often my best interviewees were people who had done some writing of memoirs.

He Asked 1500+ Elders For Advice On Living And Loving. Here's What They Told Him.

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Alexia Lee

379 days ago

There's been research showing, for example, that how you respond if your partner interrupts you while you're doing something is very diagnostic of how good the relationship's going to be. If you're actively involved in reading the paper or doing something, and your partner wants to show you something of interest to him or her, whether you respond dismissively or you briefly stop what you're doing and engage with your partner is very diagnostic of positivity in the relationship.

He Asked 1500+ Elders For Advice On Living And Loving. Here's What They Told Him.

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Alexia Lee

379 days ago

Worry less.

Their viewpoint from later on -- this may sound like a cliché, but they mean it -- is most of the things they worried about didn't happen, and the bad things that happened to them were things they hadn't considered

He Asked 1500+ Elders For Advice On Living And Loving. Here's What They Told Him.

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Alexia Lee

379 days ago

Rushing the process. It’s what we do. We = anyone who wakes up craving an impact and simultaneously terrified at the same time that they won’t have one.

But in that process is so much goodness. There are people to have coffee with, disciplines to go deeper on, books to read, there are lessons to learn from those around us that I believe — only now — make us better than we can be if

Don’t Rush the Process, An Overachiever’s Tale

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Alexia Lee

379 days ago

I sat down with a notepad and made a reverse bucket list. My reverse bucket list was a list of the absolute best, most soulful, most meaningful experiences I’ve had in my life thus far. Here’s the really interesting takeaway, one I think might pique your curiosity: Not only did this little exercise ground me and make me feel pretty darn grateful for the life I’ve had, the list revealed to me that most of my blissed-out, connection-rich life moments have involved travel.

I’M LISTENING, STOP LOOKING AT ME: Grumpy’s Reflection on Craving Connection

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Alexia Lee

379 days ago

there are three types of self-regulation: emotional, cognitive, and behavioral. In each of these domains, a person can have stability and control (or at least a sense of control). All three can be lost or improved throughout life, but they’re largely shaped by our environments and behaviors during younger years.

Why Morning People Thrive

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Alexia Lee

379 days ago

Drawing powerful analogies between two unrelated worlds is called conceptual blending.

How To Succeed Without Being A Workaholic: Twitter Co-founder Shares His Secret

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Alexia Lee

383 days ago

HHIPP: “Radical candor is humble, it’s helpful, it’s immediate, it’s in person — in private if it’s criticism and in public if it’s praise — and it doesn’t personalize.” That last P makes a key distinction: “My boss didn’t say, ‘You're stupid.’ She said, ‘You sounded stupid when you said um.’ There's a big difference between the two.”

Radical Candor — The Surprising Secret to Being a Good Boss

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Alexia Lee

383 days ago

The problem is that once we know something—say, the melody of a song—we find it hard to imagine not knowing it. Our knowledge has “cursed” us. We have difficulty sharing it with others, because we can’t readily re-create their state of mind.

In the business world, managers and employees, marketers and customers, corporate headquarters and the front line, all rely on ongoing communication but suffer from enormous information imbalances, just like the tappers and listeners.

The Curse of Knowledge

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Alexia Lee

383 days ago

The reasons you can't get appointments.

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Alexia Lee

383 days ago

Why The Greatest Sales Teams Just Kill It On Dec 31. When Everyone Else Has Gone Home.

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Alexia Lee

383 days ago

Crush SaaS Churn with These 8 Tips

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Alexia Lee

383 days ago

Do You Take Yourself Seriously?

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Alexia Lee

383 days ago

Inside The Mind That Built Google Brain: On Life, Creativity, And Failure

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Alexia Lee

383 days ago

The 27 Principles to Teaching Yourself Anything (aka The Self-Guided Education Manifesto + PDF download)

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