'You start getting bitter': what I learned from 43 years in prison
Everything worth doing is uncomfortable. Period.
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We Make Shortcuts
Look, no one cares about your real intentions. Not because they are heartless or selfish. It’s because people simply don’t have the time to conduct a psycho-analysis on every single new person they meet.
That’s why we have heuristics. We make decision short-cuts all the time. And one of the shortcuts we make is to judge what we see.
Now, that might not be the best thing. It’s always better to collect more information before you judge someone.
But the truth is that heuristics work. They make our lives easier.
There’s nothing you and I can change about that.
They still deserve your basic well-wishes. You can extend basic consideration for their wellbeing, and you can care. But they do not deserve your love.
Because everyone — you included — deserves the basic consideration of being unharmed. Everyone — you included — deserves wellbeing.
And everyone — you included — deserves to love someone who receives your love by loving you back.